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As a woman dating
I pledge not to go on a first date with a man unless he has passed a background check, no matter how we met.
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As a male ally
I pledge to complete a background check and keep it valid while I'm dating, to help the women I meet feel safer, no matter how we met.
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As a supporter
I pledge to support the single people in my life and help build a dating culture where safer first dates are the standard.
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